I cant sleep right now.so,i thught i would make a list of things that have been getting under my skin.
I have heard/ been told not to clean a litter box while you are preg. drs,friends,nosey ass bitchy people that think they know everything. well,with Trinity i didnt care and didnt read up on that since i was not cleaning a litter box. Well ,now that we have J.D .i wanted to know. so...... yes,you can get "toxoplasmosis" from a cat...if you dont clean the litter box for atleast 3 DAYS and dont wash your hands right after. ok,so who does not wash their hands right after anyways? ..never mind i know someone like that. *gags* but they also "forget" to throw it out there that if you have been around cats your whole life you have more than likely had it. OH and you are more likely to get it from raw/undercooked meat. or just digging in the dirty outside. but lets forget that and just blame cats.
People who dont use the right car seat for their child. If Trinity is not big enough to go with out a car seat and is just now in a booster seat. then your kid that is the same as Trinity is not big enough to go with out a car seat and your tiny tiny 3 year old is sure the hell not big enough for the same kind of car seat as Trinity.i know so many people who say they love their kids but then just let them run around the car without a car seat or seat belt "but my kid knows how to undo the belts and buckles" well,so does Trinity but i dont know..... maybe if you tell them the truth about what will happen to them and if that does not work maybe...just maybe, show them some pics of kids that died in car wreaks.they might stop that? " but that will scare my kid.and i dont want that" I would rather my child/ your child/anyones child. know the truth and be safe. then be jumping around in the car where if you are not even in a wreak something could happen and kill them.
Trinity starts school this week. I'm not pissed about this,I'm very happy! i know she will love it. But,yes i am sad and people need to stop telling me "she wont cry long" yeah,she might not cry at all.. but i cried everyday i went to school. so,yes she might only cry a little or none at all but she also might cry forever.I dont want to hear "you will get a break from her" I like being around my kid....yes, sometimes i like my "me time" but i get it when shes asleep. I dont want to hear " you'll have a baby in Jan" that just makes it sound like i'm replacing her.If i post something on facebook saying i have cried or something like that cuz i'm thinking about her going to school. I'm posting it to get it off my chest. not so people can tell me crap.
the people that live across the road from me.... i would like to give you a big ol middle finger. lol
When i went to the ER last month. as i was sitting in the waiting room.i posted on facebook that i was at the ER. a few people said anything about it. and of the few only a VERY few were people i'm real close to.I didnt let it bother me. lots of times i miss things people post. and it was late when i posted it. i didnt hear from hardley anyone I'm real close to the next day.or days after. even after telling people in a text or on facebook again....but everyone cared to say something when i said i knew the gender but before i told i wanted to know what everyone thought.I didnt bother telling many people i went back to the ER the next day.Maybe i'm just being moody.even tho i have not been moody with Jameson. Maybe,i know how i would be if my friend had it happen to them. I think its crazy that the friend i heard from the most is someone i have only known a few months.she even made me cupcakes.
Now,I did hear from people. even the "hey how are you" text here and there from people made me feel better. one of my "best friends" still has not asked me anything about it since that night. i have talked with her in text but she has not said anything. just all talk about her boy/girl probs. oh well....live and learn...live and learn.
So,theres a lot more that has been pissing me off but thats all i can think of right now.
how about some happy things now? yes,Happy things.
Trinity
Jameson
Patrick and i have been together 8 years as of the 13th.
My family.
My animals.
Molly the owl and her family..Molly the owl.
taking pictures.
I didn't know you were in the ER! WTF, why don't you quit posting on facebook to random people, and text one of your best friends. =P And by the way, the cat thing - I read about that too, because when I was pregnant with B I had a ferret with a litter box and I wondered if it was exclusive to cats, or all animals using litter boxes. lol And about the car seat thing OMG! I know. I see a lot of kids that aren't even in car seats, much less wearing a seat belt or sitting in the back seat. It's so sad. I always hope nothing happens to them. It doesn't even matter how careful the parent is when they're driving, all it takes is one other car not being careful and there could be a devastating disaster. So sad.
ReplyDeleteand lol it figures that your anniversary was on Friday the 13th ;)
ReplyDeleteI was in the ER due to some spotting i had. thats when i got put on bed rest.
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